So everyone wants the perfect life. Sorry to spoil it, but it will never ever go perfectly to plan, but it still can be “perfect”. But finding perfection in the imperfect is a comment for another post. Her I want to pose the question, what do you do when it becomes imperfect?
To answer this in a Judaio-Christian way if you only love them under the law then you kill a murder, but under mercy you know your own sins and so work toward reconciliation.